Wednesday, May 31, 2023

Stress and Medicine

Stress, Sress, Stress!!!!!
Google explain the meaning as "worry and pressure that is caused by having too much to deal with"
I am wondering how a medicine can deal with reducing a pressure?
If I have a problem in office I have to deal with my office to close the issue,  will a medicine solve my office issue?
If I have a problem with family I have to see how I can solve it, no medicine will solve my family issue.
Similarly we need to think how we should reduce or overcome the actual issue to reduce stress.  Rather if we take medicine to control stress or calm the mind, is that not a opium or drug or extacy? 
Are we not damaging our body and mind  by taking these wrong medicines?

I am not a doctor to explain this medically? But as a layman this is what floating in my mind. 

physical schooling in pandemic is must during restrictions by government?


Normally we used to write reviews on any products, services, bank or school's. But for a change I wanted write review about a parent.

One Saturday I went to my wife's school as she went to see some parents who are coming for a enquiry. The admission is not fot higher classes, it's for LKG. 

They asked if we are conducting physical schooling? My wife replied as per the government policy we are not supposed to conduct physical schooling now and even if government relaxes the policy we wanted to wait until the situation is clear.
She immediately replied we will also follow all the government policy but tell me if you are conducting physical schooling then I will put my son here 
My wife replied we don't required admission against government rules, but that lady adamantly said fine there are some schools accepting physical schooling and I will Put my kid there.
What is this parent trying to do?
Is she forcing to go against government policy?
If she follows government policy, but why is she forcing others to go against?
Does she want to risk kids life against pandemic? 

For some better tomorrow, practice to do some good today...


This message is for anyone who throws garbage in a vacant land. 
You just think how it will stink if you put garbage outside your home. If you want a better tomorrow, practice a good today and not only to self but for everyone else near by 
Till Yesterday people used to throw garbages opposite to my home in 1st main road myself and my father used to fight with them. But today some genius has thrown a dead dog or cat bundled in a bag and thrown opposite to my home. It smells very good and may be the person who put it here can try smelling it. I bless the one for long live.  
I stay in Thirumalai Nagar, 1st Main Road, Hasthinapuram, Chennai, ward no 19.

Friday, July 9, 2021

Bad day for the pet dog from a rude owner.


I went to my wife's school today to pick her and found one dog stuck in between the gates. I tried to push it but failed. Only later I understand it did not stuck but afraid to come out. 
It is not a stray dog, there is belt bukled round the neck. I investigated out side and understood someone came in a car and forced the dog out and left the place swiftly. 
No one noticed who they are nor the car no. I have asked some people out there to check their cctv footage to know who left it.
Is this not a strange behaviour? Whether that Pet is not a part of their family? Will they do this to their own child?
If someone not ready to take the pet till their life time why should they have one? Is it a morale?
Looking at the pet how much fear it has to see the stray dogs. It was so afraid and not even accept the food we gave. By looking at the shivering of the pet, I can easily understand how much fear it has to go out and how much it should miss their family.

I found this pet in 
VGP Srinivasa Nagar, Rajakilpakkam, Chennai, 600073 
Near Ration shop

Wednesday, July 7, 2021

Loan repayment scam or I have less knowledge?

Today morning I was sitting in a bank to see the status of the loan which is progressing for last 6 months. I heard a conversation between Bank Staff and a customer.
Customer: Madam I am paying additional payment of 27000 every month but I did not see my principle amount is reduced.
Bank staff: Sir your EMI is 23000 rit?
Customer: yes madam.
Bank staff: wait a minute I will check
(Type writting sound comes as tok tok tok tttotok totok total)
Bank Staff: Sir what ever excess payment you are paying will hot the interest amount only if you did not ask us to adjust principle amount. Sofor the last 5 months all ur additional payment went to interest amount.
Customer: oh ok then fine I am happy. Thankyou for assisting.

Here my split personality Mr Doubt Dhanabal came out. How the excess payment will go to interest amount where there is no outstanding intrest amount is there. My understanding is only the outstanding principle amount will be there? 
With this where did that amount of 27000 * 5 months went? Is this the new trick from banks or a scam or I don't have banking knowledge?

Thursday, July 1, 2021

conditioning the mind

Conditioning the mind! How and when?

Saw a video with a message where a gaint elephant is tied up with less than half of the thickness rope compared to its trunk, but it did not broke the rope nor tried to break it. Why? Is the big question turned up to my mind and it was explained fantastically. 

It's mind from the childhood is conditioned in that way like we season the cricket bat when it is new. From birth it is tied with same rope where it cannot break due to its childhood weakness and this thing seasoned it's mind that it can't broke the rope. This is the barrier set up on  the big, huge, gaint elephants mind. 

This is where conditioning plays a major role. So when a child grows and if we condition it with good thoughts, I trust that will be the barrier for them to block themselves from bad things.

Tuesday, June 29, 2021

Getting top-up home loan is tough?

I applied a top-up home loan in Feb 2021 and its almost end of June 2021. 5 months completed and I am still standing where I started. I have a good cibil score, no previous black history and still I don't get anything. I have escalated to almost all heads in the bank but no use. I believe that's the reason every peip6are going to private banks. Or the national bannks having informal toe up with private sector bank so that automatically we will go to private banks?